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communication plays a major role in the success of marriage

Sent by devan.k pannikkat

yes ofcourse........... one should always be open with your spouse. your illness is not ur ex boyfriend... whom u still date ......

Sent by deepika singh

any medical information that may have any far reaching detrimental effect on the relationship later on should best be disclosed before marriage.

Sent by shweta

revealing of chronic and serious health problems faced should be revealed to the prospective spouse, as these cannot be hidden and the prospective spouse would feel cheated, when he comes to know of the same after marriage. this would not be good for a hea

Sent by m.v.gupta

should be informed/dicussed only spouses. becoz spouses also life pratner he/she known everything.

Sent by kuntal

in my opinion, marriage is more of an lifelong understanding between two individual. the base of which should always be truth. so, it is important to disclose these informations. hereditary diseases like schizophrenia, bipolar disease can ruin families. ki

Sent by kalpita

you should share each and everything with your spouse, the marriage stands for a great mutal understanding to live longlife togather untill death.

Sent by mohammed jawwad ali khan

all diseases that need support from spouses and diseases that affect the coming generations need to be revealed and tackled together by both wife and husband and children if necessary.

Sent by khal

alll of the above ailments along with other relations and secrects should be elaborately told before marriage

Sent by arghya dutta

the more open u r to ur would be ,the better it will be rather than to spoil two lives later if things r known/disclosed

Sent by stanis

the start of a new life should be based on honesty and trust. if the partner finds out later , it amounts to betrayal.

Sent by bijal

i feel staying healthy and fit is very essential to enjoy any relationship and esp marriage. would like to know what i need to know about my partner so that we take some precautionary steps to make it good for us.

Sent by ravi

i think for any relationship honesty plays major role.so one should be honest to his/her partner.

Sent by anupama bhati

transperency is the first criteria for any healthy marriage. thus all major ailments / health related problems should be made known to each other even before finally deciding the issue of marriage.

Sent by p. k. dutta.

in my opnion marriage is beautiful intitution in which there should no secrets amoung the would-be spouses. our indian society is such that they hide these kind of health related problems from the family of the boy/girl,which is wrong . there should be an

Sent by ritu gaur

there is no necessity to discuss over hereditary, hepatities..but all other diseases should discussed with the partner..

Sent by bula bauri

any previous gynaecological surgery in women need not be communicated.in most cases it will be about abortion and thus by not communicating you should give the girl a second chance to life of starting her life once again leaving her past behind.

Sent by aaditya

yes it�s imperative that we have to declare our health condition in order to avoid any future tragedies

Sent by liyakath

have to tell all the disease and infections to our. hide the secrets, if it will not affect others.

Sent by mohan

match making profile of prospective spouses should be done.

Sent by ajay shah

its good opinion poll. why land in trouble with defective items and create many genetic problems

Sent by ahmed

afterall it is going to be togetherness..everybody has some or the other disease/ailment/illness/problem. its just a matter of understanding before or after. telling it before reduces the tension and somebody might get cured psychologically. together th

Sent by rr annamalai

yes all should be disclosed especially mental illness

Sent by rajen

i feel it is a must in order to face reality and combat financial and emotional stress and pressure that comes later!

Sent by dr.sankar marichamy

after all you are going to be with that person for the rest of your life.

Sent by soumitro das

health related matters,especially should never be hidden from the prospective spouse. previously & in some parts, where still women considers her husband god anything will be forgiven & tolerated. today with more economic independance for women, any s

Sent by mohan thomas

both spouses need to be completly honest with each other in all aspects & need to spend at lease 6 months in relationship to evaluate psycological, attitude & other compatibility. a good marriage councelling course by competent institute, preferably of the

Sent by dr. r pinto

we should give importance to find out the hidden secrets like this than looking out for the finacial background,position,dowary etc etc.people think money can bring everything.

Sent by asha

boy & girl would be helped to lead more dependable life styles by knowing these details in advance

Sent by n g kamath

i believe that there should be no secrecy as far as the above mentioned conditions are concerned, in a marriage.but will men have the courage to accept a woman who has some illness especially in a country like india?a good relationship is always based o

Sent by aparna

it really depends the extent to which the disease might impact a marriage. it is very important to be honest from the beginning n order to reduce any constraints later on.

Sent by ananta

i am an allopathic doctor & am daily seeing the physical / mental / social / psychological agony the above patients face & also their families in my day to day hospital work & private practice....is it fair to let your own family suffer for no fault of the

Sent by dr.paraameswari

all the tests may be conducted for the benefit of the couple to enable them to plan their family.

Sent by pankaj kulshreshtha

whats wrong in providing the information ?

Sent by positive

marriage is a long lasting relation (at least in indian context).hiding anything will bound to surface oneday.to maintain the mutual trust, sharing information from the begiing is always better.

Sent by d.j.basu

though all the medical problem is part and pacel of our life, it is better to address all these things prior to marriage will strengthen their marriage bond i hope.

Sent by rajarathanan

even if you do not find a right partner, you do not have any social stigma in your mind and undergo truama after marriage,if everything is told and discussed under the sun with each other. however, should be kept confidential as we should not keep repeati

Sent by sheker

transpirancy in any aspect is always better.

Sent by syed arshad

yes need to carry out for happy marriage life.

Sent by anupam chanda

honesty is the best policy esp when it comes to transmittable diseases

Sent by preethi prakash

we should not hide anything to the spouse

Sent by sukumar sen

blood group as well

Sent by sapna singh

why noy be transparent what ever you have after all you are the one going to be with your partner for ever.

Sent by arvind yadav

my opinion is unless and until is enforced as a law in a constitution it is difficult to implement in countries like india. it can be done like this. all marriages are to be registered. to register a marriage a health certificate is to be made compulsor

Sent by karthikeyan

no comments!!! yes to all that are asked...

Sent by sandip chakraborty

all of the above are best if disclosed well in advance. it helps to avoid any issues arising out of non-disclosure later on in the relationship.

Sent by shiv

marriage is a combination of faith & love.thatwhy everything will be disscussed before marriage.

Sent by poonam joshi

transparecy is essential

Sent by mlarora

all these things are bad, insha alla

Sent by robin

these deseases should be tested before marriage.

Sent by ayan mukhopadhyay

personally i feel everything should be told beforehand. and both parties should be open enough to discuss/reason a yes or no .

Sent by afreen

its a must these days!!!!!!

Sent by kasturika

all the things above are to be disclosed to spouse.so it is fair to be proactive at the time needs.

Sent by anandaraj.r

should tell the truth to have a better life

Sent by kaushik

i think each and every matter should be discused tothe spouse.

Sent by maninder singh

both should have a frank and open discussion.

Sent by c.ravindran

yes all this should be divulged before marriage shishir

Sent by shishir patil

yes, any form of disease or medical problem prior to marriage should be shared with the prospective spouse since marriage is about trust, faith & genuiness. partners are not different entities for each other rather it turns them into single embody. hidding

Sent by ritu

it is better to be transparant so that there will be no warfare after marriage since such hidden facts only cause lot of issues when the other partner comes to know about the hidden diseases.

Sent by kvk

one shold disclose all the health issues with the prospective spouses to avoid amy msiunderstandings in the future aftyer all it the love which will work inthe relationship.

Sent by v.b.save

for a healthy relationship / society both should divulge the above + more related to heath details.

Sent by n kumar

honesty is the base of such a life long relationship. if the trust is betrayed nobody is going to risk the relationship.

Sent by amin

needs to be revealed

Sent by karthick

if trust is the foundation, then no reason to hide

Sent by n s venkatachaliah

honesty is the best policy, mate!!

Sent by poornima jakaty

i believe that your spouse is the one person with whom you can share absolutely everything in life, be it happiness or sorrow - so why not illness? and better yet to start on a clean slate...let them know the worst of you first - whether it is health or ot

Sent by pavithra venkatraman

all illnesses should be disclosed.

Sent by xyz

general health condition should be discussed and disclosed. that will help for the better understanding.if we are not disclosing it will leads to separation in the future.to be honest is what makes a married life happy and peaceful after all both are going

Sent by harishankar

my view point is that any significant disesase should be open between life partner to check any any future problems of fiath.

Sent by rajesh

the above should be. regarding aesthetic surgery, i am not sure if i understand what that means.

Sent by amitb

both partners should be open and frank

Sent by rommel

we should inform our spouse so that we can tackle the problem together

Sent by d.g.l.mawnai

relationships should be based on trust, faith and openness. it is important for prospective couples to divulge health related information upfront so that the other person can make an informed decision regarding the relationship. some health related issues

Sent by roshan m

i think transparency in all such matters is essential.. as you must respect your parterners right to be informed and then move ahead with the alliance.

Sent by jasmine

any information which can later affect the life of the couple directly or indirectly should not be hidden from each other.

Sent by japita

after all, marriage is a union of two souls and before they become inseparable, it is only fair to disclose all details before embarking on such a journey. it helps in bonding and love, and overall taking a conscious decision about what one is getting into

Sent by subhash

should enquire by both party, to avoid any risk to eachothers future.

Sent by anant

the indian middle class is still hypocrytic and so divulging of such things is not acceptable and if the information like above are divulged then it becomes very difficult for the alliance to go forward especially in women especially. women still need to

Sent by srinivas garlapati

relationship should be absolute transparent right from beginning.

Sent by arijit ghosh

i am loyal to my husband

Sent by nita

nothing related to physical problems be hidden.

Sent by sunil kumar

all should be revealed to the prospective spouses

Sent by geetha

yes should disclose all details about health

Sent by swamy

it good to know by both partners

Sent by david fernandez

it is necessary to make health check up mandatory for the couples before marriage. in fact, it is more important and relavant when compared to tallying of the horoscope which is given utmost importance. k.s.harish

Sent by k.s.harish

its the truth that trust and honesty form the base of a good relationship even if its marriage or any other relationship..... so the question doesnot arise of hidding anything if the relationship is for lifelong

Sent by gsha

chronic and life threathining illness / diseases should never be hidden from the prospective spouse

Sent by mohammad zafar ali

yes i think husband should make it clear all the personel information with wife before marriage

Sent by sachin

i think aids test can be made compulsory to start with in cities and progress to the towns.any std can be made compulsary by the government

Sent by swetha

spouse must be aware of every thing

Sent by shree tembey

any life long relationhip needs to start on a foundation of trust, faith, and honesty. though it might turn off some people at the beginning but in the long term life will be happy and peaceful.

Sent by rajiv sharma

i agree witht he above.

Sent by m muralidharan

this relationship is based purely on trust.so both the partners should know about each other.

Sent by meena

yes one should and must openly discuss his/her health to the prospective spouse. no need to hide things that impact life after marriage

Sent by sekhar

something are necessary to disclose and something must not be disclosed with spouse to long and lasting understanding hashmat*

Sent by hashmat

everything should be divulged. nothing but the truth!

Sent by nikam

if not revealed in the initial stages, then it might change the whole life to a black one.

Sent by padma

all the main abilities and disablities , and all the respective information about health should be given clearly

Sent by preet

yes must be disclosed , good relationships are based on trust hence honesty & transparency are essentail . w/o which there is no trust & w/o trust no meaningful reationship can blossom.

Sent by rohan

no need to hesitate to give all information to the partner. if you hide than became a serious problame

Sent by prashant

must divulge if impacts the health of spouse or the children of the marriage.

Sent by ivy

everything should be revealed. no room for hiding. so one can have happy and peaceful married life

Sent by rashmi

yes, in my opinion diseases which are hereditary or contagious/infectious should be divulged to the propsective partners. yes, you have a obligation of not infecting others or cheating each other at the time of fixing alliances.

Sent by rama hariharan

i think that its better to maintain complete transparency,atleast in a marital relationship. it would be to selfish to hide critical information and let the spouse discover, much to his/her shock or horror later in the marriage.

Sent by rohini

yes, every single instance which will affect your marriage has to be said. no point in hinding it as your spouse will find out sooner or later. and once your spouse finds out, then, there will be a sense of disbelief and distrust in everything that is done

Sent by lakshmi rajesh

we should share every think with him which make the bound more trust and healthy regards manisha

Sent by manisha

instead of comimg to know later & having unhealthy reltionship its better to frank in the begining may save the marraige

Sent by shobha

honesty is the best policy

Sent by dr k. sil

should be open in all perspective

Sent by balaji.s

unless details of such nature is disclosed, it may jeopardize the relationship later, the happiness in the home front may deteriorate () hence it is better to disclose than to hide () it will be upto the partners to decide ()

Sent by nalini rao

nothing should be hidden.

Sent by sanjeev

should be fair and sincere in all discussions with the partner/family.

Sent by ravindran

i believe that these information should be divulged so that there is an element of trust that is prevalent amongst the pair, this will help in developing on healthy relationship

Sent by rsnrao

yes,one has no right to spoil other person life,so should not keep in dark abt their ilness.

Sent by neelam rai

marriage being the beginning of a life long partnership,trust and honesty form the base of a good relationship.

Sent by kranthi

critical things should be disclosed.

Sent by suman

marriage is a life long decesion, which should be based on honesty . every person has a right to know what he or she is getting into.

Sent by arti

wife is the better half of a man, so it is the right of both the side to know each others to know their sensitive issues/problems. otherwise the faith of the relationship of which we r talking about will collapse in time. just imagine!!!

Sent by jayanta

yes i strongly feel that the above kind of illness have to be disclosed to prospective spouses

Sent by mahadevan

she should be the best

Sent by kalyan

with respective to previous illness, it aleays pays to be honest and reveal it all in the open

Sent by shyamsundar

marriage is a harmony where 2 people are becoming 1 . it is based on security, love, affection & care. so there should not be any hidden secrets b/w husband and wife except their past love affairs, which may shake the foundation of the marriage.

Sent by anitha

some tests should be done before marriage considering the recent timings and trends

Sent by s.g.vyas

marriage is a very important bonding which is based upon trust and mutual understanding. we should be open in telling about our medical history with prospective partner. if s/he later comes to know about the diseases s/he might feel betrayed. today

Sent by yash

as marriage is realationship between two different person,they have to know each and everything about the person as they have to stay together with trust,loyality,honesty...

Sent by vidya

better to be open than repent later

Sent by george c. abraham

we should be transperant with spouse.then only every thing will be smooth.

Sent by venkatesh

i think it is very much necessary for anybody to reveal everything to his/her spouse and diseases are no exception.

Sent by mandarthosar

my answers above say it all. truth always. i am happy today because i am not hiding anything. so i dont have to worry abput anything. hidden facts will always erupt out like lava and can destroy everything. so before going into any relationship you have to

Sent by soni

acute and short tem illness need not to be and also the chronic but not so worrying illness need not to be

Sent by christian maria joseph

themarked information should be shared to protect the partner.itis very important

Sent by m.l.sarup

yes things that has to be shared has to shared.

Sent by sathish

trust and honesty form the base of a good relationship, with marriage being the beginning of a life long partnership.

Sent by balachandran

preemarital blood test is good for avoiding blood group problems.

Sent by latha surendran

in my opinion one should tell or discuss all the topics with their future partner,which can majorly impact on their future life.

Sent by parmod budhwar

yes. truth will come out some day. better to let the spouse know so the marriage is not based on dishonesty. the spouse has the right to know. otherwise it is called cheating. in india, getting married is considered as end to all problems. but it is just

Sent by rg

love and faith are the primary requirement for all relationship .so one must be frank about ones health and views with the life-partner to be.

Sent by sara

the more information you share, the better will be your life!

Sent by ramji.n.

if trust and honesty is the bases of happy life long relationship them there should not be any kind of hide and seek affair.becoz it is very difficult to digest any kind of hidden illness or secrets in later stage of relationship.

Sent by sharmita

all informations should be shared to avoid unpleasentness after marriage and breakup of family

Sent by sanjoy bose

should definitely revealed prior to marraige to lead happy n peaceful life.

Sent by murali

husband & wife should be crystal clear to each other not only mentally also physically so health is very importand for understanding eachother.

Sent by debarjun mitra

yes, to have health relationship all detail should be made available. it should be mandatory or some kind of law to disclose the same.

Sent by prabhdeep singh

yes all these checks should be made mandatory by law before any marriage and should be compulsory for registered marraiges.

Sent by gaurav shrivastava

the persons able to face all truth can only be a good partner.otherwise , the hidden truth may be unbearable to other & also there is fear of hidden truth.

Sent by anand

one cant hide such things for long. so, if something get disclose to ones partner after marriage it could lead to worse scenario. so in any case it should not be hide.

Sent by balbinder bhatia

marriage is definately a long lasting relationship with complete trust , understanding, respect,honesty and other such factor. without revealing this information, either u dont have faith in ur spouse or u dont have faith in yourself. if u really want a ha

Sent by sunita

we should explain every weakness to our spouse before marriage

Sent by gurdev singh samra

i think everything should be made clear to the spouse, whether the result is positive or negative. if life starts with some hidden secrets that might create problems later. it is better to clarify such things. if they accept then it will surely lead to goo

Sent by syed kabeer ahmed k

tests can be done for both the partners, if they agree mutually without disclosing the information to outside for whatever decision they take. in urban areas still people take it positively but surely not beyond.

Sent by raman

nothing has been disclosed

Sent by ramesh

do not hide anything. start the relationship on the grounds of truth and trust.

Sent by sb

diseases which affect their married life and the prospective kids life, should be shared with the spouse.you cant hide some of these disease.so its better to maintain trust and honesty in your realtion.

Sent by pragati

since marriage is a bond of lifetime it is very necessary to disclose all facts.

Sent by a. g. bhide

the clear open expression of the illness between men and women gives the picture of what they are going through and what they have the real picture of each other..

Sent by kiran

u should honest and open in marriage, marraige is more trust and faith in each other than love

Sent by satish

every things should be clear...thats love

Sent by stephen

definitly... both of them should reveal the ill health esp about the chronic diseases which would be good for them and for their future. as many of the congenital anomalies to children are acquired from their parents.

Sent by arnoldedwin

serious and life endangering diseases should be revealed without any hesitation and delay. some information has to be withheld to be revealed later on after gaining the confidence of the spouse. after all we dont know how one will react to the issue.

Sent by thirumal

be farnk to your would be always as it can help you to save unwanted disaster ---a divorce which is unexpected.

Sent by dr.mini

we have to stay away from that.. if such disease will occur ,we must to be notice our partner

Sent by raghuraman

with this not sufficient.how ur going to examine erectionproblem it is very important.

Sent by madhan

when you decide to spend life together with one another, its always good to share everything with your would-be partner before-hand.

Sent by aruna sriram

you should be true to u r partner dont hide anything

Sent by sachin mandke

what can be done to avoid diabities

Sent by ajay david

in todays world, these things matter a lot. no one has the right to destroy the lives of otehrs.

Sent by mklakra

it makes both the sides life easier in the long run for a good relationship

Sent by sai ramineni

it takes courage to change from a system that we have presetly to something that we envisage. its the journey which is always the more difficult part. and people part of the journey may also bear the brunt of it, but then there is only one chouce, you eith

Sent by shikha

one should disclose all the hiden defects.

Sent by nrgrao

thalassemia and hemophilia are also increasing in their prevalence. all women should undergo the test for these diseases too.

Sent by hitish

yes it is important to divuldge,in time, the related info which is going to affect your life with your prospective spouse.

Sent by ranjan

when you love someone you are honor bond to protect her / or him, and your wife or husband is entitled to know what she / or he is getting into honesty and compassion go hand in hand in a marriage

Sent by sandra miranda

of course!! its a question of lifelong relationship- and starting it on a bed of lies wont see that far.

Sent by bhavna duggal

everything need disclose before marriage as it depends the life of two persons

Sent by paresh badyakar

not many families are open to discuss about the health history but it should happen.

Sent by pankaj

honesty is the best way to lead a peaceful life between each other

Sent by harish kumar.s

over all we have to see such as the hiv+, brain disorders,heart problems,impotency,hipertensions in both the partners,alergics,

Sent by s.sridhar

yes,better for future life and generation to come.

Sent by milind

such things totally depend upon the couple who are embarking upon their married life - the parameters could differ from couple to couple. however, some basic facts of course must be frankly told to the prospective spouse.

Sent by himank

the diseases which has impact on fundamental health should be disclosed. minor problems or major problems that have been completely cured with no further implication can be kept secret

Sent by venkat goli

these are the basic informations every human should know about these thinghs.

Sent by santosh patel

any illness that the person has must be informed.

Sent by manju

i believe there should not be anything hidden from your spouse.trust should be mutual right fromthe word go.this ensure a positive lifelong relationship.

Sent by jawahar abraham

nothing should be hidden as this may cause problems latter. we cant hide stuff life-long right.

Sent by gourinath

face the facts

Sent by vaidyanatha

being true will always help in long run

Sent by pervinder

the husband and wife are going to face the music good or bad in future, if they desire good understanding relationship they have to develop trust and that can be acheived only by telling the truth. lying on any simple or silly matter is also not advisable,

Sent by vinod

the disease which can spread to the spouse should be be definitely be told to the spouse..in the case of hiv yes it has to be done.. a hiv infected guy/girl should not be married to an innocent uninfected guy/girl without their knowledge.

Sent by vijayalakshmi v.r

i guess it should be legally enforced that marryig couples undergo these tests and submit the reports to prospective spouse. making this legal would help do away with any potential moral issues / complications. also if the test results were forged than t

Sent by ashutosh

you have to be honest about everything...esp your medical background as a patient to your spouse. if you are hiding something its only because you are ashamed/sensitive about talking about it.

Sent by amri

disclosure leads to respect, mutual trust and gives a satisfaction of not cheating

Sent by dr shafeeq

marriage is based on trust. one can not expect a strong building if foundation is weak. same is the case with marriage. if something is hidden then one can not expect marriage to be successful. especially case related to health. this is becase married coup

Sent by nikhil sapre

one should be honest with its spouse.

Sent by anna

marriage is perhaps one of the most celebrated relations of the world. two strangers come together and are bound ny trust and love. transparency is very important. as far as diseases like hepatitis, aids and other chronic illnesss are concerned, there shou

Sent by shveta bhutani

its an ethical and moral reposnibilty to be honest to someone who is trusting you enough to plan a life with you.

Sent by vinnie

except hiv no other information is needed

Sent by srinivas

i am doubtful about hiv since lots of other issues are also involved.

Sent by manish

it is very important to disclose such past histories; otherwise the relationship may lead to tragedy.

Sent by krb pillai

it is good to have the medical history before getting married ,to avoid in future medical serious problems .since we already have a very poor health services in india. due to this we can have a healthly married life with our partner.

Sent by s qamar

one day or the other it has to come out in he open. why deceive ur partner

Sent by arun

the above information should be made mandatory before registering the marriage document. the information on hiv /aids has to be made compulsory, this will not only save innocent lives but also families who otherwise have to carry the burden of the effected

Sent by sandeep kaushik

the spouses need not be afraid to shareb the information as the marriage is based on the trust, understanding and love. if this be true,then the couples could share anything with the consent of the other as the relationship is based on love and friendship.

Sent by r.murali

i guess these r few things which we must share with our partner as we might hide them for sometime but when it will come out it will surely errupt volcanno instead we better communicate n handle these matters at the beginning to ensure healthy relationship

Sent by manish kumar bansal

about the disease should be told and the afair before maraige also told to the spouse. honesty is the foundation of good releation

Sent by shyam

one should inform to his/her prospective spouse

Sent by minakshi

some day some how people will know the truth. so its always better to speak up first.

Sent by simone

any serious medical history which might effect the relations should be divulged before marriage. so this would help the couple to take better care of each other and avoid misunderstading in their married life.

Sent by seema

ovcourse, after all what is honesty all about. if one is ready to spend the whole life with a person it means that he/she finds her suitable enough so as to devulge their problems if any, in past or present. it completely questions the foundation of marria

Sent by garima singh

if you disclose everything then no body will ever get married because nobody is perfect

Sent by rajesh beri

one should know the disease of spouse because it creates ill feeling later on

Sent by m.sukanya

it is better to divulge the information on health in the interest of future happiness of the couple.

Sent by ashok m rao

i feel it is the responsibilty of the both the partners to share their health problems before marraige.

Sent by aisha

definitely

Sent by dm

shoudl disclose all problems before marriage

Sent by vaslan krishnan

this is very tricky issue and varies from person to person. if things do not harm your relationship u can be open, but this is million dollar question

Sent by sivaramakrishnan

one needs to be honest and upfront when it comes to marriage,partners should be entitled to know the present health of the spouse to be,it leads to a healthier life together and an honest start down the long and winding road called marriage .

Sent by tanya kukreti

all these things nee dot be cross checked in arranged as well as love marriages, it is a must

Sent by megha mann

weshould always befrank to inform the one we are marrying ourproblems in health

Sent by christopher

i believe nobody has right to plagiarize a life by concealing facts or the pitfalls because there are long term consequences that are to be borne by the future generations hence it is the duty in the right spirit to divulge vulnerable issues to the to be s

Sent by kit

alright

Sent by dnyaneshwar kadam

i feel all these info should be disclosed to the prospective spouse so that she can a take a informed decision about going together...

Sent by hiral raja

wat i feel is ...they sdhld not hidden all the above things ...if not in first meeting ....at least in second/third meeting they need to reveal things ....or else the relationship wil end up when truth is out ....and also when its hiv ....its injustice

Sent by sandhya achintalu

it completely depends on the compatibiluty of the two individuals .

Sent by jayashree raman

i do not see any harm in disclosing the full information and be transparent. any way, one can not suppress these information. so why not disclose upfront.

Sent by rajesh daga

open to spouce

Sent by drpk dash

can hide the things which last for short time and from which she/he can recover soon.

Sent by venkat

very important. will cause problems later if not spoken about, i think even before marriage.

Sent by leonie mcculloch

it always better to be open to the spouses....

Sent by sathish

there should be complete transparency, come what may.

Sent by surinder

every relationship stands on mutual trust & understanding. so it is better we reveal the secrets which are significant in nature instead of they finding it out later & causing havoc. it is also fair to the other person.

Sent by kamala

its very essential for building trust and also ensuring this place is a better place to live.

Sent by harish

well. we should not hide anuthing from our own expecting spoues. its very important to take up these all these test. i dont know what is aesthetic surg. bt one can take up if it is going to affect others life.

Sent by rasika magdum

divulging will have a better relationship and help tackle diseases jointly.

Sent by khalid ahmed

not only women, both the partners should divulge all the information and start the marriage on a truthful foundation

Sent by gagan

everything should be crystal clear between parter / it also depend upon how is you partner how he will react on this

Sent by jagruti

it is desirable to know each other everything before hand once u decided that u r made for each other.if anything which is hidden comes to the surface after marraige than it is only destiny or destruction and sufferers willbe your uyoung generation who hav

Sent by sriram.bidayat

knowledge is essential to prevent deterioration or spread of communicablew diseases atleast

Sent by o,p, mahajan

it works mutually.things r easier to accept when told in advance wrather discovered later.

Sent by dr shraddha agarwal

all health problems which can affect the spouse or children should be divulged to the prospective partner before marriage.

Sent by s c misra

free and frank life thru equality and trust requires both partners to divulge health information, it improves comfidence on each other

Sent by vijay richard

routen check up

Sent by nain

truth should be the foundation of marriage

Sent by timothy chandra

nothing should be hidden and all things should be talked and discussed at length.

Sent by chidambaram

its always better to divulge the information about the illness to the future wife because it helps them to cope up with it in case the situation warrants.

Sent by madhavan

very common for people to lie in arranged marriages, which is a crime

Sent by a

for answers with no- need not be volunteered, but answered truthfully if asked. for cant say - i do not know the consequences of these illnes on a person, therefore the choice.

Sent by a. l. shah

but the fact is nothing is in our hand, everything is gods plan...have a hope in this live a lovely long life....!

Sent by elanthenral

this is necessary for all to be tested their health prefectly.

Sent by debi prasad mishra

of course, everything should be known to each other. after all, couples are the ones who can talk and share views on any subject under the universe.

Sent by sasi kurup

marriage is a bond of trust ,affetion and togetherness in which you cannot hide such things from your spouse,because in future you have to have his support hiding or sharing also depends upon your spouses nature and understanding.in my opinion women do h

Sent by prerna grover

its very imp that one should be honest in every respect with the prospective spouse.marriage means that for rest of the life one will share happiness and sorrows with the life partner but definetly it should not include diseases. medical problems should

Sent by puja tikku

yes, the partner has a right to know all existing ailments and decide whether one wants a person with any of the above ailments.

Sent by shara

nothing should be hidden...its should be a open book

Sent by chandru

marriage is all about accepting the other person as a spouse the way they are!!! so, a marriage where there hidden secrets in the closet is highly unsuccessful.

Sent by krithika anand

well according to me all the previous illness that would effect ones spouse should be openly discussed .

Sent by wafa usman

these should be known to each other before marriage. but as our country goes by astrological match making its also important for the astrologer to look into these diseases thoroughly in the horoscopes of both the bride and the groom

Sent by sanjib kumar bharali

though this all needs to be disclosed prior to marriage. but who actually does it? people tell lot many lies about themselves and their families and get married to partners, they dont deserve at all!!

Sent by garima gupta

hepatitis and hiv/aids are deadly diseases which can be transimitted. disclosure of such information is required and should be asked for in marriages specially where the people are not known to each other.

Sent by akanksha1sarna

it is better to communicate maximum correct information to have a last longing relation ship

Sent by r.balakrishnan

relationship are long term. disclosing the facts might just delay the start of good relationship but dishonesty might end it forever.

Sent by harshita

i strongly believe that there should not be any room for scecret inbetween a husaband and wife. a partner should know about other partner in all aspects, hiding certain thing will spoil the relationship.

Sent by r.puratchimani

all this are must to be disclosed to between patners before starting a family

Sent by manoranjan

we should never put other life at risk,if you suffer from any illness you should share it with your prospective spouse and if the illness is not transferable even the other person should accept it since it will not affect him in anyway and should be more t

Sent by mansi kapoor

one should be fair in marriage

Sent by anju

one must always be as frank and honest as possible. it is not always true that alliances break just because of being honest about health problems. on the contrary hiding things can lead to problems later after marriage.

Sent by k. lakshmi

because it not only save the life of one another but also save the life of new comer

Sent by pradip kumar

it depends on both side. bse sometime it can be negative also.

Sent by m

its better to inform to would be life partner

Sent by sk

the major illnesses / hereditary of major illneses in the family should be disclosed prior to marriage as marriage is based on mutual respect and concern.

Sent by i.n.zaidi

if you are planning on spending the rest of your life with someone,truth about such conditions should also be told to them aforehand.

Sent by vinita choudhary

my life partner has all the rights to know what i am, what i have, what i was, what i had and all and all and all......

Sent by animeshjainsethi@yahoo.co.in

pre-marital transparency is preferable to post-marital discord. these issues can lead to major problems related to mistrust, deceit and unfaithfulness from each of the spouses.

Sent by gracy rodrigues

yes as marraige is the base of trust and we all ahve to be truthful to make the base strong

Sent by vikas

you should truthfully to your spouse, so you need to disclosed you medical problems

Sent by chitrasampath

everything should be transparent. the family of girl child are taking advantage of dowry law in india to harass the boys family in case the girl is a psychiatric patient or having some chronic illness and tormenting the boys family often taking the public

Sent by ashok kumar dwivedi

it should be made compulsory for all the new marriages

Sent by muthuvel.p

it should be made compulsary before marriage

Sent by dr.arthanari

success of marriage is based on mutual trust. hence there should not be any hidden deal.

Sent by mahasen gandle

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